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([personal profile] which_chick May. 11th, 2026 08:05 am)
I do not often venture to the theater to see movies. However, I wanted to see talking cgi sheep solve a murder mystery. That is definitely a thing I want to see. So, Saturday night, I drug Lala to the movies with me to see talking cgi sheep solve a murder in Sheep Detectives.

Hugh Jackman has never moved hay in his life... )
Fic one: Protagonist very recently, like, last week, left home to live with a friend. Protagonist wonders how his newly estranged family found him, then reflects that "the internet still exists". Technically a true statement in 1994, however, it's perhaps a bit more likely that they just used the phone book.

Fic two: Protagonist is touristing in NYC, casually stops in a bodega, buys a flip phone so he can text people. Not in 1992 he didn't - texting via phones was only just invented that year and phones were bricks!

You gotta laugh. Kindly and gently, but still - you gotta laugh!

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([personal profile] conuly May. 12th, 2026 10:26 pm)


I was introduced to this piece - specifically Jupiter, Bringer of Jollity - via Wolf 359, the Christmas episode, aka the one where things go from "comedically dark" to "shit just got real".
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([personal profile] conuly May. 11th, 2026 02:17 pm)
Late in May as the light lengthens
toward summer the young goldfinches
flutter down through the day for the first time
to find themselves among fallen petals
cradling their day's colors in the day's shadows
of the garden beside the old house
after a cold spring with no rain
not a sound comes from the empty village
as I stand eating the black cherries
from the loaded branches above me
saying to myself Remember this


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([personal profile] conuly May. 10th, 2026 08:53 am)
And, you know, feel however you feel about your mother!

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([personal profile] goodbyebird May. 10th, 2026 02:23 pm)
+ 🗣️ New Aldous Harding album. I repeat: new Aldous Harding album.

+ Retreated to my bedroom for a quiet space to finally get a post out. Brough my holiday incense leftovers and now everything smells amazing. There's just nothing else that smells this good to me.

+ Finally did one voluntary social call since coming home. Met my good friend K, the one I didn't get around to last free trip. It's always such a lovely time. Miracles of miracles, it was actually sunny and warm that day. (we've had two full days with white on the ground. This morning greeted me with a hail storm. ~MAY~)

We may be meeting up next week so I can finally see her new house. There's a bunch of springy lambs visible from her window!

+ Friend J got a new Guinea pig and is sending me all sorts of cute pictures and videos 🥰

+ Redid the pin badge banner on my bedroom door, for more springy vibes. Wish I had more floral pins, but I feel nicely covered when it comes to work and life vibes. )

+ The online store with the biggest selection of tarot decks and books announced they were shutting down, so whups there goes another shopping spree. I really did want to put a whole lot more time into my new decks first, but that's how it goes. I'll finally have my hands on the supremely queer and joyful Supernova Tarot though!! Absolute delight in a box, cannot wait.As well as Kate Forsyth's Plant Oracle. I'm just really craving florals and animals lately. But mostly it was new books, including a year long work book. So that'll be interesting to tackle. Structure would do me good.

+ I've officially sent in my resignation at work. Wish I could roll around in relief, but of course all I'm feeling is overwhelmed and stressed about having to find something new. Still better than the toxic soup I was drowning in.

Turned to my tarot for a small soothing work reading.

a 3 card spread: 8 of air and death on top, foundation the hermit.


Ah yes, 8 of Swords, my second in line stalker card. Confronting inner barriers, awareness of self-limiting beliefs, a shift of perspective for potential liberation. And Death, the end of one phase and the beginning of another. Embracing inevitable changes. As the foundation I pulled The Hierophant: spiritual wisdom, tradition, embodying guidance and mentorship.

The next couple of days I did three one card pulls, and well, let's just say [it's the same picture dot jpeg].

ace of stone from Yukika Tarot , peppermint from Dirt Gems, the silence from Dreamscape Oracle.


small
a seed already has the energy to begin
and then takes time in the dark underground,
supported and nourished by the soil, the matrix.
to have a foundation, to root.




Peppermint can dispel the mental chatter that prevents us from being present. They can allow our minds to be cool and clear. Peppermint offers perspective on how we see ourselves and how we engage with the world, showing us a way through the many layers of selves around which we build stories.

Peppermint is an excellent ally for transition.




No amount of clarity or visualization is possible without distancing oneself from the noise of the world. It can be challenging to take ourselves out of the flood of distractions we deal with minute by minute.

Seek out a place of stillness to hear what you need; time to meditate.


All in all a clear message. To honor it, after I'm done here I'll be brewing myself a cup of peppermint tea and tidying a bit, followed by a bath using a small Aromatgerapy Associates bottle I know contains peppermint. Then hop in bed with the window open to feel the breeze and do a body scan meditation (extremely likely to be followed by a nap heh). Bonus, this matches up perfectly with the exercise for my current Embodied Ecosystems Tarot task.

+ Now, you'd think I was done playing with my cards? lol nope. I just recently received The Intuitive Goddess Tarot, and decided to do their seven card chakra spread. Sparing you all my card blather. )

+ We're still open for offerings and requests at 3W4DW Tarot Reading, for anybody who's been thinking about joining in.

+ If you've ever wanted to give paid time a try on Dreamwidth, or would just like to top up your account, please do put your name in the hat. Multiple donors have signed on, we'd just like you to get something nice while supporting Dreamwidth ❤️

+ Tonight I'll play some more with the Star Wars Icon Pass It On. Stop by and drop some images for us to play with and make some shiny icons ✨
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([personal profile] conuly May. 9th, 2026 02:00 pm)
What are we now but voices
who promise each other
a life neither one can deliver
not for lack of wanting
but wanting can’t make it so.
We hang from a vine
at the cliff’s edge.
There are tigers above
and below. Let us love
one another and let go.


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Seen on the SIR

This poem references the well-known zen koan.
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([personal profile] conuly May. 7th, 2026 11:31 am)
My shampoo is no longer being produced and I need more shampoo.

It needs to be perfume light, and ideally I should be able to get shampoo, conditioner, and body wash that don't clash with each other. I generally find that products marketed as natural are more likely to have scents that aren't overwhelming and don't make my eyes itch, give me a sore throat, or trigger a headache - but there's no guarantee there.

And, of course, it needs to get my hair clean, ideally without drying it out.

Help?
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([personal profile] goodbyebird May. 9th, 2026 01:20 pm)
Very belated SW icons recs/praise for May 4th, but hey, SO MANY PRETTIES. You should take a look, trust. )

Some of these iconners and their pages are lost to the sands of time, but many are still right here on Dreamwidth, and there's loads more icons to choose from. Very much recommend stopping by their communities and digging through their posts, and remember: if you snag an icon, let them know ❤️

Btw the Star Wars Icon Pass It On will run throughout the weekend, come join in! icons for all your space faves :D
I took the plow truck (1999 F250 V10) in to have it inspected. There was rather a lot of play in the steering, more than I generally like to have for driving at highway speeds, so I mentioned that to the shop when I dropped the truck off.

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([personal profile] conuly May. 6th, 2026 12:09 am)
We owe nothing on this gas bill, no outstanding debt.

The Big Soup: Growing up Autistic is a graphic memoir on Kickstarter that’s 92% funded, but with only a few hours to go

Red Flower is a manga-style project on BackerKit that’s only 50% funded, and with less than a week to go. From a small publisher that lost most of their original print run to the Diamond bankruptcy, so they really need community support right now

If you’re looking for new comics to check out, maybe throw them some money?

Over on DW:

Dreamwidth point exchange ending on May 14 — if you want to try out DW’s paid features, comment on that post within the next week, then the OP will match you with someone who has DW points to donate


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([personal profile] kazzy_cee May. 7th, 2026 04:16 pm)
Today I braved the cold winds and possible rain to visit the Michaelina Wautier exhibition. Probably born 'Michelle' in the Spanish Netherlands around 1614, very little is known about her life, as many of the relevant documents we know existed (such as her will) have been destroyed. She was a trailblazer for women artists as she not only painted beautiful flower paintings, but also portraits, scenes from everyday life and history paintings showing religious and mythological subjects.

Women artists at the time were very restricted in what they could do, as they were prevented from attending formal art training. Fortunately, Michaelina's older brother was a painter, and it is likely he taught her, and they may have had a studio together for some years. During her lifetime, it is thought she was as famous as her contemporary Artemisia Gentileschi, but she has been forgotten for nearly three centuries, with many of her works being attributed to others (and in some instances, her name was painted over on her paintings!).

More of her works are being discovered all the time, including this set of five paintings: The Five Senses:
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Painted in 1650, these were only rediscovered in 2019 at an auction and are shown for the first time.  More about these (and close-ups), and other lovely paintings, under the cut.
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It was a really interesting exhibition, and well worth a visit to see an artist who is still having new works discovered and attributed to her skill as a painter.

So I just read a piece of meta, which I’m going to avoid linking, because I don’t want this to feel like a callout or a slam on the writer. The writer was fine.

The quick summary is, [character] gets interpreted by fandom as autistic, and the writer explained “actually, [character] is intellectually disabled. They might also be autistic — you can be more than one thing at a time! — but they’re definitely intellectually disabled, because of [list of symptoms].”

…And, look, not to be all When I Was Your Age, but: (sits back in rocking chair, takes a long drag on pipe) when I was a young whippersnapper in school, back in the stone ages, all those things were just autism.

When the term “autism spectrum” was canonized in the DSM-5 in 2013, it folded together 4 different previous categories. One was Asperger’s syndrome, which specifically had “doesn’t test as being intellectually disabled” in the diagnostic criteria. The other 3, including the disorder previously known as Just Autism, didn’t have that exclusion.

So here’s some anecdata on how that played out in practice, back when I was in grade school. I knew students who were diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome — those were the kids who were intellectually able to keep up with standard-to-gifted classes, they just had struggles with other issues. And I knew kids who were diagnosed with Autism Classic, who were mostly in the “special ed” classes.

I can’t swear to the exact diagnosis of every special-ed kid. I was their schoolmate, not their doctor. Possibly some of them had the other two diagnoses (CDD and PDD-NOS) that ended up in the autism spectrum? There’s at least one that I know had Down’s syndrome, which is from a whole separate category.

One thing I can tell you is, in casual conversation, it was pretty standard to use “the autistic kids” to describe the whole group. Which was at least accurate-enough that no teacher or authority figure ever told us not to use it.

In elementary school — maybe third grade? — I remember one particular kid who was in the special ed classes at first, but got “mainstreamed” into my class for a year. The rest of us were specifically told that his diagnosis was autism, and that didn’t change. So, even though the term “autism spectrum” wasn’t official yet, the system did have different approaches available for different autistic people — not just on-paper but in-practice, enough to be understood by random unrelated small children.

(In retrospect, I wish I knew more details. How much support was this kid getting? Was it enough to make the “mainstreaming” work for him? But obviously the adults weren’t gossiping about those aspects to unrelated small children.)

Fast-forward a decade or so, and the DSM-5 merges all the diagnoses. The conversations about it were overwhelmingly positive — as in, I’m not sure I ever heard anyone complaining about it.

Which makes sense, for a lot of good reasons. If multiple “separate” conditions turn out to have the same underlying mechanism, then of course medical science should group them together. If people with the “less severe” condition would benefit from some of the support that the “more severe” condition gets, then of course we should make it accessible to all of them. If there’s not enough recognition that a diagnosis has a range of presentations that need different approaches, then yeah, let’s put the word “spectrum” in The Official Term. (Also: if you have a diagnosis that’s named after a Nazi doctor, it’s never a bad time to rename that.)

…And then I read this post, and I think, oh no. We, as a society, haven’t made a successful conceptual shift from “autism needs all the Classic Autism symptoms, otherwise it’s Asperger’s, which is something else” to “it’s all just autism.” The concept we’re shifting to is “autism is just the Classic Asperger’s symptoms, and if you have the other Classic Autism symptoms, that’s something else.”

Can we actually handle the idea of making a spectrum this broad? Or are we doomed to always fall back on moving it around — that is, only including one new batch of people in the category if we redefine another batch of people out of it?

Ugh.

…again, to be clear, this is all a reaction to one person’s post. I have no idea how widespread this mental framing is. Or if it’s having any negative effects for people IRL, as opposed to just flipping the direction of “[character] isn’t coded as autistic, you can tell because they [do/don’t] have these intellectual-disability symptoms” meta.

But it bothered me enough to vent about, so here we are.


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([personal profile] which_chick May. 5th, 2026 06:38 pm)
There are 26 squares. I need to do some spinning to make more yarn for more squares. I have one more ball of "light" marl but I'm bored of that and want there to be "dark" marl yarn. So... "dark" marl yarn there shall be.
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([personal profile] which_chick May. 5th, 2026 02:20 pm)
I did the thyroid ultrasound thing on Monday. (It had been scheduled for the 19th but they kept sending me text alerts on the app which I refuse to install and subsequent email notifications about the alerts on the app, all of which were like Woot! An earlier appointment is available! Would you like it now? followed approximately 30 seconds later by Oopsie, you snooze, you lose! The earlier appointment special offer is no longer available!. Finally on Friday they called me on the phone and were like, "Hey, can you come in on Monday May 4?" and I was "Sure." so that was a far more reasonable way to expedite.)

I am getting better at portals. )
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([personal profile] which_chick May. 4th, 2026 06:06 pm)
As I mentioned, I bought two fleeces at MD S&W over the weekend. I've also bought fleeces from "online" (etsy, ebay, facebook "raw wool for sale" groups) without actually touching them first. I've been pretty happy with damn near everything I've bought for myself.

This is a specialized topic. )
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([personal profile] goodbyebird May. 4th, 2026 03:15 pm)
It's May 4th, how about an impromptu icon pass it on?

+ Reply to a comment that has an image with the icon made from that image plus a new image for the next person to work with.
+ You can also start your own comment thread, supplying your own starter image.
+ Only one starter thread per person, but you can answer as many image prompts as you want (you leave an image yourself every time you post an icon).
+ It doesn't matter if someone else has already made an icon for an image, make your own, let's create a sprawling comments section of pretties! (want to icon an image you supplied? Once again, go for it!)
+ All Star Wars canon welcome, be it movies, shows, comics, games.
+ We'll keep it going for a week, until end of Sunday May 10th.

You can find various images here.
I'll post the first image in the comments below to get us going ♥
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([personal profile] erinptah May. 3rd, 2026 01:39 pm)
Update 1: Finally made it to that drag show!

I got a mid-week text about it, not saying it was canceled again, but that it was moving to a different venue. Slightly less convenient than the original, there was an extra bus ride involved, but it did exist!

As suspected, it was tiny. Little hole-in-the-wall bar/lounge, a dozen customers in the whole place, plenty of empty chairs, no stage, the queens just sauntered between the tables. The online signup had all these conditions -- bring your e-ticket, bring ID, bring the specific credit card you made the purchase with -- yeah, nobody on-site checked any of those things. I think some people showed up without realizing there was a performance at all, they just hung out at the bar and enjoyed it for free.

All that said, the performers were beautiful and talented, they did not let the small crowd slow them down, and I'm glad I gave them my money.

Update 2: Found the thing!

This pattern I remembered as "some kind of screensaver, probably" isn't from a computer screen at all. It's...a novelty lamp, I think?

Turns out the color-squares-playing gadget was still findable in my parents' basement. Short video on Bluesky, here's a screencap:

Screencap of the box with the colors

Stickers from the back of the gadget

Stickers on the back:
- Underwriters' Laboratories, Inc. (R) LISTED PORTABLE LAMP ISSUE NO. E-383
- MATRIX MOD. 6019

The official packaging is long gone, so there's no telling what name it was actually sold under, and I can't find anything online referring to these model numbers. I don't suppose any of you know an archive that keeps records of this kind of thing...?

ETA: 
  • Underwriters' Laboratories is a safety certification company, and they have a database of products they've certified, but this model number doesn't come up in the publicly-available version
  • Dad is guessing the source is "Spencer's Gifts in the 1970s" -- that would've been the era's top source of Weird Stuff That's Not Practical It Just Looks Neat, and "just put a neat pattern on a VHS tape, sell it for people to play in their VCRs" wasn't an option yet (or at least, not a profitable one)
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([personal profile] which_chick May. 3rd, 2026 10:27 am)
I went to MD Sheep and Wool on Saturday. It's a fiber festival in Maryland in May, has been for (checking t-shirt) 53 years now. MD S&W is one of the behemoths of the east coast festivals, right up there with the madhouse that is Rhinebeck (in New York State). As MD S&W is about an hour and a half, a straight shot down I-70 (I live four miles from I-70) and Rhinebeck is 5 hours and 30 minutes (one way)... it's MD Sheep and Wool for me, thanks.

Saturday dawned bright and clear and somewhat chilly. )
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